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In the realm of intimate relationships, few experiences match the profound connection and blissful joy of truly fulfilling lovemaking.

But, in our fast paced world, this profound connection is often rushed, leaving both partners yearning for deeper satisfaction. It’s a scenario familiar to many: the race to climax, the hurried release, and the missed opportunities for profound intimacy and ecstasy.

But let’s imagine a different scenario—a lovemaking experience where time slows down, where sensations are savoured, and where pleasure reaches heights previously unimaginable.

This is the promise of edging and tantra—a journey into the depths of sensual exploration and heightened sexual awareness.

The Art of Edging: Mastery Over Orgasm

At its essence, edging is the practice of approaching the brink of orgasm and then deliberately pulling back, repeatedly, to delay climax.

Edging isn’t just about prolonging pleasure (although it’s pretty amazing for that!). It’s also a pathway to mastering one’s own sexual responses and enhancing overall satisfaction.

How Edging Works

Imagine this: instead of rushing headlong towards orgasm, you and your partner embark on a journey of discovery. You engage in intimate play, allowing arousal to build steadily.

As you near the peak of pleasure, you ease off, savoring the sensations, and allowing the intensity to ebb.

This cycle repeats, each time bringing you closer to the edge, until finally, when the time is right, you allow yourself to tip over into a climax that defies description—a toe-curling, body-shaking release of ecstasy.

Benefits of Edging

The benefits of edging extend far beyond the bedroom.

For men, it offers greater control over ejaculation, leading to prolonged sexual encounters and heightened pleasure for both partners.

It encourages mindfulness and deepens intimacy as partners learn to synchronise their rhythms and respond to each other’s cues.

For women, edging enhances arousal, intensifies orgasms, and deepens the connection with their own bodies and their partners.

Edging in Practice

Practicing edging requires patience and communication. It involves tuning into your body’s signals, understanding your arousal patterns, and learning to regulate them consciously.

Through this practice, you can enhance your sexual experience and cultivate a deeper appreciation for the nuances of pleasure and intimacy.

Tantra: Beyond Sexual Technique

While edging focuses on the physical aspect of pleasure, tantra expands the horizon to encompass spiritual and emotional dimensions of intimacy.

Originating from ancient Eastern traditions, tantra is a holistic practice that works with sexual energy as a pathway to spiritual awakening and personal growth.

Understanding Tantra

Tantra is often misunderstood in popular culture as mere sexual technique. It’s not just about sex, but it can take our sexual play to new heights.

Tantra is a profound spiritual discipline that invites practitioners to embrace their bodies, emotions, and desires without judgment, cultivating a deep connection to oneself and one’s partner.

Central to tantra is the belief that sexual energy, when harnessed consciously, can lead to higher states of consciousness and profound spiritual experiences.

Principles of Tantric Sex

In tantric lovemaking, the focus shifts from achieving orgasm to experiencing the journey of arousal and connection. Partners engage in slow, deliberate movements, synchronised breathing, and mindful touch.

This approach allows sexual energy to flow freely throughout the body, expanding beyond genital pleasure to move through the entire being.

The Role of Breath and Presence

Integral to tantric practice is the synchronisation of breath between partners—a practice known as ‘conscious breathing.’

Conscious Breathing deepens physical intimacy and brings about both emotional and energetic alignment.

By staying present in the moment and remaining attuned to each other’s needs, partners create a harmonious dance of energy, where pleasure becomes a shared experience of mutual discovery and fulfillment.

Integrating Edging and Tantra: A Path to Deeper Connection

Combining edging with tantric principles amplifies the transformative potential of both practices. Edging enhances orgasmic control and prolongs pleasure, while tantra provides a framework for spiritual and emotional connection.

Together, they offer couples a pathway to profound intimacy, where every touch, every breath, becomes an expression of love and mindfulness.

Practices for Couples

For couples embarking on this journey, practices may include:

●  Shared Breathwork: Sit facing each other, synchronise your breath, and maintain eye contact. As you inhale and exhale together, feel the energy flow between you.

●  Slow and Sensual Touch: Explore each other’s bodies with mindful touch, focusing on sensations rather than goals. Allow arousal to build gradually, pausing to savor moments of heightened pleasure.

●  Mutual Edging: Alternate roles as giver and receiver in edging exercises. Communicate openly about arousal levels and desires, allowing each partner to guide the experience.

●  Energetic Awareness: Visualize and feel sexual energy circulating throughout your bodies. Imagine it flowing from your genitals to your heart, deepening emotional intimacy and connection.

Beyond the Bedroom: Integrating Tantra into Daily Life

The benefits of tantric and edging practices extend beyond sexual intimacy. By cultivating awareness of your body, emotions, and energy, you can experience:

●  Enhanced Emotional Intimacy: Deepened understanding and empathy for your partner’s desires and needs.

●  Heightened Sensuality: Increased sensitivity to touch, taste, smell, and other sensory experiences.

●  Spiritual Connection: A sense of oneness with your partner and the universe, fostering a deeper spiritual bond.

●  Heightened Sensuality: Increased sensitivity to touch, taste, smell, and other sensory experiences.

Daily Rituals

Integrate tantric principles into your daily routine to nurture intimacy and connection:

●  Morning Rituals: Start the day with shared meditation or gentle touch, setting intentions for love and presence.

●  Mindful Communication: Practice active listening and authentic expression of desires and feelings.

●  Sacred Moments: Create rituals of connection, such as shared baths, sensual massages, or quiet moments of reflection together.

Embracing the Path of Tantra and Edging

In a world often focused on instant gratification, tantra and edging invite us to slow down, savour the journey, and explore the depths of our being. They offer a pathway to profound intimacy, where pleasure becomes a gateway to spiritual awakening and personal growth.

By embracing these practices with openness and curiosity, couples can transform their lovemaking into a sacred dance of energy and connection. Each moment becomes an opportunity for deeper understanding, heightened pleasure, and a more profound experience of love.

So, dear reader, as you embark on this journey of exploration, remember: the path of tantra and edging is not just about sexual technique—it’s a journey into the heart of intimacy, where every touch, every breath, becomes a celebration of love and consciousness.

Embrace the beauty of slow, intentional lovemaking. Explore the depths of your desires and the boundless possibilities of connection. And may your journey be filled with moments of ecstasy, discovery, and profound transformation.

In Gratitude, Taranga

What’s the return of an investment in yourself?

Massage therapy is often seen as a luxury reserved for the wealthy or a posh treat for special occasions. But it’s time to reframe this perception and recognise massage therapy as an investment in your overall health and well being.

Massage therapy involves the manipulation of soft tissues in the body, including muscles, tendons, ligaments, and fascia. The benefits go far beyond simply feeling relaxed and pampered. Massage has also been shown to support both physical and mental health in many ways.

First and foremost, massage therapy can help alleviate physical pain and discomfort. Whether you suffer from chronic pain conditions such as fibromyalgia or arthritis, or you experience occasional soreness and stiffness from sitting at a desk all day, massage therapy can help. Massage therapists are trained to identify areas of tension and use specialized techniques to help release tight muscles, reduce inflammation, and increase circulation.

It doesn’t stop at relieving pain. Massage therapy can also improve your overall physical function. Regular massages can help increase flexibility, range of motion, and joint mobility, making it easier for you to perform everyday tasks such as bending, reaching, and lifting. Massage therapy can also improve your posture and balance, which reduces your risk of falls and other injuries.

Beyond the physical benefits, massage therapy can also have a significant impact on your mental health. Stress and anxiety are increasingly common in our fast-paced, high-pressure world, and massage therapy can be a powerful tool for managing these feelings. Massage has been shown to reduce cortisol, the hormone associated with stress, while increasing levels of dopamine and serotonin, which are associated with feelings of happiness and well-being.

With all of these benefits, it’s clear that massage therapy is not an extravagance. Just the opposite! Regular massage is a wise investment in your overall health and well-being!

So, how can you make the most of your investment?

First, it’s important to find a qualified and experienced massage therapist. Look for a therapist who is licensed, trained in the specific techniques that are best suited to your needs, and has a track record of success. You should also consider factors such as location, price, and scheduling flexibility to ensure that you can easily fit massages into your busy schedule.

Second, don’t be afraid to communicate with your massage therapist. Let them know what areas of your body are causing you discomfort or tension, and ask them to adjust their techniques accordingly. If you prefer a lighter or deeper pressure, or if you have any injuries or health conditions that need to be taken into account, be sure to let your therapist know.

Finally, consider making massage therapy a regular part of your self-care routine. Just like eating well and exercising regularly, regular massages can have a cumulative effect, helping you maintain physical and mental well-being over time. Whether you schedule a weekly or monthly massage, or simply make it a priority to book a massage whenever you feel stressed or in pain, making massage therapy a regular habit can help you get the most out of your investment.

How about that? By giving back to our body regularly, we can get healthier and enjoy our body more. By making massage therapy a regular part of your self-care routine, you can reap the physical and mental benefits of this powerful healing practice for years to come.

In gratitude,

Taranga

Hey folks.

In today’s society, we are constantly bombarded with images of what the “perfect” body looks like. We get it everywhere, from social media to magazines and advertisements. It’s hard not to feel pressure to conform to these unrealistic beauty standards. But it’s important to remember that there is no such thing as a perfect body and that our differences make us beautiful.

Learning to love your unique body is not always easy, but it’s a journey worth taking. Here are some tips to help you along the way:

Embrace Your Flaws

Instead of focusing on your flaws and imperfections, try to embrace them. They are what make you unique and beautiful, exactly the person that you are. No one is perfect, and that’s okay. Remember that everyone has flaws, and it’s these imperfections that make us human.

Practice Self-Care

Taking care of your body is a great way to show it love and appreciation. Whether it’s through exercise, a healthy diet, or pampering yourself with a relaxing bath or massage, self-care can help you feel more confident and comfortable in your own skin.

Surround Yourself with Positive Influences

Surrounding yourself with positive influences can help you develop a more positive attitude towards your body. This can be as simple as following body-positive social media accounts, reading books and articles that promote self-love, or spending time with people who make you feel good about yourself.

Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Comparing yourself to others is a surefire way to make yourself feel inadequate. Instead of focusing on how you measure up to others, focus on your own unique qualities and strengths. Remember that everyone’s journey is different, and what works for someone else may not work for you.

Challenge Negative Self-Talk

We all have that little voice in our head that tells us we’re not good enough. It’s important to challenge this negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations. Instead of criticizing yourself, try to focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

Celebrate Your Body

Celebrate your body for all that it does for you. Instead of criticizing your body for what it lacks, focus on what it can do. Whether it’s running a marathon, hiking a mountain, or simply getting out of bed in the morning, your body is capable of amazing things.

Learning to love your unique body is a journey, and it’s not always easy. But the more we love our body, the better it feels. And when we feel better, we look better too. Remember, your body is unique and beautiful, and you deserve to love it just the way it is.

In gratitude,

Taranga

The second half of 2021 has been quite turbulent and, without realising, it’s been about two months since I’ve last sat down to write a blog post. The simple reason behind this is something that’s been on all of our minds here in Australia – COVID-19.

As you know, I live in the beautiful city of Sydney and we’ve been in lockdown for the last twelve weeks. This lockdown feels never-ending as our infection rate keeps growing and it seems reaching 0 cases has become an impossible idea. Instead, the focus has become on getting people vaccinated, so until enough people have received their two doses, we’ll continue to live in a state of lockdown.

I’m fortunate enough to be one of the people who get a cheque to just hang out and enjoy my time alone. However, the one thing I can’t do is have my clients over for a sensual and erotic massage experience. I’ve officially closed down again until further notice.

Although not being able to do what I love causes me great sadness, I must admit I am in a more comfortable space than others. So many people are unable to see family and friends and must rely on platforms like Zoom to connect with their loved ones. Houses have lost their incomes and families have been devastated by COVID-19, leaving people isolated and even hospitalised. My heart goes out to everyone being affected by this terrible virus.

That’s not to say I haven’t felt the effects of the pandemic myself. I’m not enlightened or a buddha, I’ve had bouts of depression and moments of ‘what am I doing here?’. I’ve had periods of reflection and wasted too many hours watching anti-vax videos on YouTube (which are downright depressing in themselves).

One positive aspect though is that I’m already fully vaccinated and have my certificate ready to show clients when they can come to visit me again. Being fully vaccinated makes me feel more comfortable and confident when going out to shop for basics or spending a little time outside for exercise and to take care of my mental health. I’m also proud to be fully vaccinated so that when things do open up again I can care for my clients in the safest way possible, while also doing my part for the community at large.

So, what does this mean for us all spiritually, emotionally and physically? We all have to do our part to remain positive but it’s also important to take time to reflect on how we’re truly feeling. If you do ever get down, that’s okay. One thing I’ve learnt is that what goes down must come back up, so remember that this pain is only temporary. Use that time for reflection, be kind to yourself and do as much as you can to stay positive.

If you are struggling a little bit, I’ve got some fun tips for you on how to uplift your mood. Give yourself a relaxing massage, take a long bath, or try both at the same time! Organise a little dance party through Zoom with your loved ones and jump around your living room together (virtually) to your favourite songs. Put on your all-time favourite movie, or cosy up in bed with your laptop and watch some fun videos on YouTube. We all get an hour a day to go outside, breathe in fresh air and exercise, so use that to its fullest. Look up at the sky, walk solely in

meditation and enjoy the beautiful outdoors. Don’t forget to be kind to others too, just saying one simple thing to make a family member or friend feel great about themselves can really change their whole day. If you are on your own in lockdown, make sure you’ve got your singles buddy locked in and try to connect with them as much as possible to brighten your day and theirs.

While we may not be able to see each other face to face right now, we can still connect with each other through OnlyFans. It’s an online platform with a monthly subscription fee that will allow you access to all my virtual content as well as a way for us to keep talking and working together. My OnlyFans platform is a place of connection and reflection, meditation, ASMR readings, musings and positive quotes. It’s a very casual space where we can get to know each other on a deeper level. Sometimes I just post personal content like sweating the little things in life and lighthearted funny things. If you want me to discuss something of importance to you, you can write to me and let me know via OnlyFans as well.

My OnlyFans account name is Bliss Rising, but you can check out my page via this link. I’ll be posting twice a week, come connect with me there!

To everyone who sees this blog, be safe and well wherever you are in the big wide world. Enjoy every moment, give blessing for what you have in life and always have joy in your heart.

Taranga,